I been listening to beyonce new album and i am really loving all of her song. I enjoy listening “Halo” which i decidated to my loving fiance who show me that there still sunshine after the rain. And now i am listening to “If i were a boy” which is a  great hit too. Its a very nice song. I really get into the lyrics.  I even listen to the one with a duet with R Kelly. He really have a very nice and powerful voice. And he really give a good spice on the song. I really enjoy it and even if i kept on listening to it the whole day i wont find a time that i get bored. I really felt the emotion of the song. I guess  because it did remind  me of all my past relationship. Where i am so blinded  of loving someone who do take me for granted. Well all of us been to that kind of relationship. Not only girls but also guys have or had problem with there past of present relationship. I guess love is really like that. There some of us who really willing  to give everything just to make someone we love happy.  And there are someone who sometimes get too relax on there relationship that they sometimes take there partner forgranted, because they thought their partner love them so much that they can do anything they want. And sometimes we even forgot that in the things we do we sometimes hurt someone we love. Loving is always a two way street. You cannot call a relationship as a relationship if there only one who is sacrificing and loving. Love must have to be balance. One side need to be as balance as the other side or it will be broken. There have to trust, communication and faithfullness to make a relationship work.  And most of all always make god be the center of the relationship. Let god be the knot that tie you both together. And always try to listen. Listening sometimes is the thing thats missing to make a relationship work. Sometimes we talk and talk but we dont listen. We say what we feel all the time but do we listen to what our partner do feel too? And if we listen, do we understand what out partner is trying to say? And if we really felt bad about something i guess we need to be open to it. And tell our partner. Thats what i learn. I knew before i always  kept quiet even if i am hurting. I am scared that if my partner  knew about it he will go away or will get mad at me. But i was wrong it will always make my anger grow more and more. And as long as i kept it  and i wont tell my partner. He kept on doing it. He kept on hurting me. And when i explode and get so mad and said how i felt its already too late.  So now that i already learn my lesson. I always make sure i tell my fiance how i feel. And i always kept my trust to him. I know sometimes i get to a part where i worry and wonder because his so far and i couldn’t see him all the time that he might have someone else. But i still find a way of trusting him. Because right now. Communication and trust is what we both need to make our relationship works. I know he do trust me. I hope i didnt sound like im one sided here.  I know there are girl out there too that do play around and  also didnt take a relationship seriously. And there are guys who didnt take relationship seriously too.  Sometimes we need to sit down and talk about the problem. And try to be on each other shoes so we can feel if what were doing if hurting our partner before its too late and what two people who is inlove build come trumbling down.